You may see every door closed for you, but you must keep your doors open. The scope should be maintained to make it easier for others to reach you. Some should keep doing this so that others can see you welcoming them. You should see, hear, make others feel special, love and be ready to help them.
Our expectations from ourselves, from others, from the circumstances and from the world do not take the name of ending. We want everything to be according to our wishes, but it does not happen. That is why we get upset. Accepting what is there gives freedom and freedom is happiness. If there is a feeling of anger, restlessness or occupation in the heart, then we cannot be free. Do not expect more from yourself. But keep the courage. Going forward on your path, you will also get courage and with small successes, the picture of the future will also become clear.
You do not need to be locked out somewhere to be happy or for spiritual peace. There is something in front of you and within you, which you can learn. Just take care not to imagine your happiness with such things, which you do not have. You will have both grief and happiness, remove grief and fill yourself with happiness. If you tell yourself that you are happy, then you will definitely be happy. Thousands of followers in wealth and fame and social media do not guarantee that you can be happy. Last year, when we all took shelter in the security camp of our loved ones under the fear of Corona, we found that there is no need to spend a lot of money to be happy. Just being with your loved ones and the health of your loved ones is enough for the heart to be happy. There is no option to be unhappy for things you cannot change or for those things you can change. There is no point in running a race behind success, you cannot be happy by joining this race. The journey feels good only when you like the mind. They also have a different philosophy about successful people. They want to see success on the face of the people, in the eyes. To achieve the happiness that we roam through our lives, if it does not appear on your face, then your hard work, wealth and achievements do not make any sense.
It is not easy to follow the path leading to progress. Many kinds of fear disturb. The heart is saying something, the mind is saying something. Outside our safe circle, we find ourselves very weak. Every new start scares us. So in order to move forward, we have to first overcome our inner fear. Whether we are happy or sad, like our life or dislike, we become accustomed to living in a way. We find it difficult to keep pace with new responsibilities. We are afraid of losing, of laughing at others, of losing relationships, of losing what is at hand. For new changes, we also have to change our habits. So every new beginning makes us trouble. We tend to avoid moving forward.
We all have our limits. But is it right to throw all your failures at those limits? The problem is that we do not even do what we can. A lot of big things can be created in the realm of boundaries. Actually, the boundaries tell us what we can do, what we can do or not. Which do you want to do, which do not. Who can come close to us, who cannot. In this way, our attitude towards life also becomes reflected in our works. The point is also that we are less compelled than resources, more by our mind. There is no limit to this garden of the world, which is in our own mind. Most of the limitations we impose on our mind. The boundaries of our mind open when we work fully. And then the most important thing is that there is no limit to the person who loves himself and others.
At times in moments of sadness, it is difficult to maintain curiosity. But it is true that people who have a desire can recover quickly from their sorrows. The desire to know others’ happiness and sorrow even when they are grieving, empathizing with them brings us closer to others. Our interest in others gives us the ground to understand them, to connect with them, and the sky of new possibilities. And it is no small matter.